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  • Safe, Sane, and Consensual/Playing With
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  • Basic Trope: If no one gets seriously hurt, no one's under the influence of anything, and everyone wants to do this, then it's fine. * Straight: Bob is a sexual sadist, but before he does anything with Alice, he talks with her about limits, Safewords, and consent. * Exaggerated: Bob consults several experts on the safety of every single detail of what he wants to do to Alice, gets a psych evaluation, and obtains consent in writing. * Downplayed: Bob tells Alice the Safe Word is thermos. Alice nods and they get started. * Justified: Bob has a strict code of ethics about harming people without their consent. * Everyone In-Universe knows that Rape is a Special Kind of Evil. * Inverted: Bob is a sexual sadist who rapes and tortures Alice. * Alice is a Dominatrix who
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  • Basic Trope: If no one gets seriously hurt, no one's under the influence of anything, and everyone wants to do this, then it's fine. * Straight: Bob is a sexual sadist, but before he does anything with Alice, he talks with her about limits, Safewords, and consent. * Exaggerated: Bob consults several experts on the safety of every single detail of what he wants to do to Alice, gets a psych evaluation, and obtains consent in writing. * Downplayed: Bob tells Alice the Safe Word is thermos. Alice nods and they get started. * Justified: Bob has a strict code of ethics about harming people without their consent. * Everyone In-Universe knows that Rape is a Special Kind of Evil. * Inverted: Bob is a sexual sadist who rapes and tortures Alice. * Alice is a Dominatrix who goes through safewords and limits before beginning a BDSM session. * Subverted: Bob gives Alice a Safe Word, but when she uses it, he ignores it. * Double Subverted: Because he didn't hear it. She says it louder, and he stops and apologizes. * Parodied: ??? * Zig Zagged: ??? * Averted: Bob is vanilla. * Bob follows Risk-Aware Consensual Kink instead. * Enforced: The author is into BDSM, and is tired of such people being demonized. * Alternatively, the author is just tired of seeing practitioners of BDSM get mixed up with rapists. * Lampshaded: "BDSM is not abuse. It's about inflicting intense sensations in a manner that is Safe, Sane, and Consensual." * "Rape and BDSM. There's really only one difference between the two, but that's what makes it such a big difference: the safeword." * Invoked: Alice will only play with Doms who follow this philosophy. * Exploited: ??? * Defied: ??? * Discussed: Bob and Alice, more than likely before Their First Time, have a detailed but intimate bedroom discussion, covering likes/dislikes, medical issues, Safeword(s), etc. * Conversed: ??? Back to Safe, Sane, and Consensual